Place a Surprise Call or Text
Even if you have a regular time that you call or text during the day, do it at an unusual time, even from another room in your home. Say something like, “I am falling in love with you all over again,” or “Just want you to know you are the hottest thing in my life.” Chances are your partner may begin to reciprocate. It may not be a call or text – maybe a note left someplace where you will find it or your favorite candy bar on the kitchen counter. These little things add up to all of those warm and fuzzy feelings you used to have every day.
Have Something Delivered
How about doing something a bit different here? Everyone gets flowers, candy, or food as gifts, ordered from those retailers, on special occasions. Be patient. Watch for your partner to see something in a store or online that they would like to have. It might be a book, a clothing item, or a specific beer mug – nothing all that expensive. For no reason at all, buy it and have it delivered to work or home. The element of surprise is always good.
Give Lingering Hugs and Kisses
If your partner is ready to leave or has just returned, even if you are busy and engaged in something, stop, get up, go over, put your arms around them and plant a long romantic kiss. This needs to become a habit.
The other thing that needs to be a habit? Telling your partner you love them at least once a day.
Just Dance
Dancing can be one of the most erotic activities on the planet. If you go to a club and a slow dance comes on, pull your partner onto the dance floor, put your bodies together, and move in sync. And at home? Put on your favorite slow song and dance right in the living room.
Speaking of Favorite Songs
Restoring intimacy doesn’t have to be all serious. When a favorite song comes on, stand up, get something for a fake microphone, and lip-sync that song to your partner. Get a bit dramatic as you do it too.