So here we are in February, the month of love and sex. And here you are, the victim of those stupid courses and ready to have some sex education of your own, based on your sexuality and a relationship (short- or long-term) with a partner.
Here’s how to have your own sex-ed class.
Take a Real Look
You may have already had sex with your current partner. So what? Do you really know each other’s bodies? Maybe not. Use your visual and tactile senses to do that now. Keep the lights on. Really look at one another, and take in all that you see. What parts of your partner’s body turn you on? Speak up and say so and encourage your partner to do the same. Words matter.
Get Physical
With the lights still on, spend some time touching, tonguing, and kissing various body parts to learn what turns your partner on. You’ll want to remember these for present and future activities.
The Nose Knows
Fragrances can play a big role in erotic satisfaction. You and your partner should experiment with a variety of creams, lubricants, oils, and such and find those that are the most appealing and offer the best “turn-ons.”
Toys are Not Just For Kids
Visit a sex toy store or website together. Choose some that both of you think you will enjoy using, either as the giver or receiver. Experiment with them and then buy some more. This should be an ongoing budget item, as your tastes and desires evolve.
Audio-Visuals in Your Curriculum
What’s any course today without audio-visual materials? We actually learn far better when we see and hear about something, instead of just reading about it. Buy some sex videos, watch them together, and turn each other on by copying the techniques. Experiment, experiment, experiment.